Ralph and Jan Gaffney
Ralph with 00 car?
Ralph with Wags
Ralph and wife Joy
Ralph heading to work
Ralph and Cary Faas
Ralph with Wags, Mike English and Bogan
Ralph with Jan Gaffney
Ralph with part cart
Ralph looking at Harlan's car
Ralph with Jim Bartosh and John Redican
Ralph with DJ's father Pat
For me, Ralph meant something different. He was a quiet leader, a behind the scenes man who shaped others in a positive way. His guidance and encouragement to me was at times very rewarding and helped me see my way into the racing scene. When I look back at that smile he gave me, I remember his words of wisdom, as if he were still talking to me today. Ralph's support for me and what my Wagtimer's do never wavered, even when I rocked the boat. He was there for me with encouragement, always.
Ralph died on August 16th, 2000 in Long Beach. His life was celebrated at the Forest Lawn Mortuary in the Church of Our Fathers on August 22 with an overflow gathering of friends and family. The John Jory # 3 Sprinter was parked at the curb outside in honor of him. It was sad to know another member of our racing community was taken from us, but we must go on. Ralphie will be missed by all. Rest in peace my friend.